Flirting Tips For Guys – How To Get Instant Flirting Confidence!

Flirting can be a lot of fun, but most guys lack the confidence to flirt successfully…so I want to share with you some of my flirting tips so guys have the confidence to approach and flirt with any woman they choose.

Here are my 4 keys to flirting with confidence. I suggest you read every word of this article and make these four flirting tips for men a part of your life, because they will make a world of difference in your flirting success.


I’m sure you’ve done this many times before. You’d see a woman you liked, you’d feel the initial rush of attraction, and then things would start popping up in your mind, like, “She doesn’t like me because…”

You became a mind reader! Why deprive the woman of the opportunity to make that decision for herself, or to surprise you or herself? Stop guessing what a woman will or won’t like about you, because you won’t know for sure until you find out by getting closer.

The second of my four flirting tips for guys is to CHANGE YOUR INTENT.

When we see a woman we like, as guys, our imaginations (and desires) tend to run into overdrive. We attach special importance to this particular woman, so we try to think of the perfect way to approach that will guarantee 100% success.

But because there is no such thing as a perfect approach, we are afraid to get close in case we mess up! “I don’t want to ruin it with her,” we think, all because we blow up the importance of knowing her in our minds.

Of course, by NOT getting closer, we don’t get what we want EVERYWAY… so why not change the INTENT or reason for getting closer?

When you see someone you like, control your thoughts and change your intention. Instead of thinking about all the things you’d like to do with her, think like this…

“Let’s have some fun with this person. Let’s PLAY with her and see if she’s open and friendly.”

Approach her with your sole intention of making her day and bringing some fun into her life…and then being willing to see what happens after that. You will be surprised how simply changing the INTENT behind your approach will make it so much easier to do.

The third key is to SMILE.

If your intention is simply to have fun and make their day, then part of that is to SMILE. People are drawn to warm and happy people. You’ll be surprised what a simple smile can do.

The fourth key is to change the MEANING of the RESULT.

Another reason why men hesitate to approach a woman is that they fear “rejection.” But let’s look at it from another point of view.

Since I always approach a woman with the intention of having fun, playing around, and seeing how I can make her day, if she chooses not to get involved in this, then she’s probably someone I don’t want in my life anyway. It’s YOUR loss of it.

Can you see how this way of thinking, in addition to being true, will serve you much better? This is my belief, and it works for me. I suggest you also have this belief: “I am never turned down, I just find out if you have good taste and are smart enough to recognize someone who can bring fun to your life.”

Of course, in addition to having these flirting tips for men, it helps to know WHAT TO SAY to a woman so you can start flirting in the first place. I don’t recommend flirting, because it doesn’t work very often, and besides, there are much better things you can use to start flirting with a woman.

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