Complimenting women is an area of seduction that a
a lot of guys get a lot wrong. You see, most guys think that
the best way to get a girl interested in them is
literally “rain” her with praise. Well the fact is
that in some cases, this may work, but in most cases, this
it will kill all chances of seducing women.
In many situations, paying a girl a compliment actually
REDUCES your chances of seducing her. And even when the
the situation is right to give compliments, you have to know
HOW to deliver the compliment. If you’re wrong, you could
destroy any attraction she may have had for you. but if you
do it right, you immediately get the girl to “hook” you
and increases your chances of seducing her by about 1000%.
The best way to flatter a girl you want to seduce is
use what I call the “qualified compliment.” Basically a
A qualified compliment is a compliment that has two parts to it.
1) The actual compliment (which is flattering to the girl),
2) Some kind of standard you have to meet (in order to be able to
These types of compliments fly “under a girl’s radar” and
Sounds like a pretty normal compliment until she reflects on it.
she’ll…suddenly realize that’s not a COMPLETE compliment,
that something is missing… and this will force her
to start seeking her approval, and once she starts doing
this… YOU’RE IN!
Let’s see examples. the first one goes
something like this, you could say to a girl, “You know, I
I just realized something… You are absolutely beautiful. In
In fact, you would be my absolutely perfect woman if you were
a little taller, like two inches or so.”
Sounds like a compliment, but you still have
something behind (a standard; in this case, its HEIGHT) that
she hasn’t. So she would start to see you as a guy.
with very specific standards, and that is enormously attractive
She will also start to think that she is somehow inadequate.
(in your eyes) and try to show you that she can make up for it
that deficiency in other ways. For example, she can use
high heels next time I see you just to show you that
she may appear taller. Obviously you can replace the
“height” standard with anything else like your tan, or
shoes or something like that. You see, psychologically, yes
you can get someone to start “grading” for you
and fighting for your approval, they will become more and more
more attracted to you
The second example is probably even more interesting. You
say something like this: “You know, you’re one of the most
awesome girls i’ve seen in a long time. In fact I would say
you’re definitely in my top 9 or 10 girls… I’ve met quite a few
few pretty girls, but I learned that they all have
certain unique qualities that differentiate it from the following
a. And a girl like you reminds me of that unique kind of
beauty among all women”.
A compliment like this will make him realize that you have
high standards in women, and although she is beautiful… you are
not overwhelmed by her because you have a lot of women
friends who look as beautiful as her. she will want
set yourself apart from the other girls in your life by
impress him in other ways and of course this leads to
she becomes subconsciously attracted to you. the more she
tries to “brand” herself and seek your approval, the more
she is attracted to you.