Is your house in order? Are you sure? The chaos and confusion that we often see within, around us, and after we have left the stage are always the result of our inability to do what we are supposed to do, how we are supposed to do it, and in the moment. suitable. When we neglect our duties, those who follow us and all of society pay for it. Here, we will look at the factors and actions that often lead to these avoidable problems. We will also see how they affect us, our relationships and our families. Don’t you see all the struggles that involve most of our families today just over inheritance and property? It is God’s will that we live happily, successfully and also transmit love, peace, obedience and divine covenants and relationships to our children and the next generations and not hatred, hostility and endless ‘war’ as we see in everywhere. Many homes and institutions today are in bitter battles because someone did not do what they were supposed to do on time. And you know that what happens at home affects the whole of society. If they are defective, society is sure to be in chaos. But if we do it right at home, then we will have a peaceful, happy and prosperous society. Now, look at your family, your establishment, do you think that is how it is supposed to be?
Maybe we will try to start from the beginning so that we can get enough background on what we want to discuss here. Must? The first house was in Eden. It was beautiful and blessed. But look at what happened there when it didn’t work as designed. That failure brought the downfall of man and all of creation, “The serpent was the most cunning of all the wild animals that the LORD God had made. One day he asked the woman: ‘Did God really say that you should not eat the fruit from any of the trees in the garden? “Of course we can eat fruit from the trees in the garden,” replied the woman. “It’s just the fruit from the tree in the middle of the garden that we are not allowed to eat.” He said: ‘You must not eat it or touch it; if you do, you will die.’ You will not die! the snake replied to the woman. “God knows your eyes will open as soon as you eat it, and you will be like God, knowing good and evil “.
The woman was convinced. He saw that the tree was beautiful and its fruit looked delicious, and he wanted the wisdom it would give him. So he took some of the fruit and ate it. Then she gave some to her husband, who was with her, and he ate it too. At that moment their eyes were opened and they were suddenly ashamed of their nakedness. So they sewed fig leaves to cover themselves. As the cool afternoon breeze blew, the man and his wife heard the Lord God strolling through the garden. Then they hid from the LORD God among the trees. Then the LORD God called to the man, “Where are you?” He replied, ‘I heard you walking in the garden, so I hid. I was scared because I was naked. ” Who told you that you were naked? asked the LORD God. “Have you eaten of the tree whose fruit I commanded you not to eat?” The man replied, “It was the woman you gave me who gave me the fruit, and I ate it.” Genesis 3: 1-12
Did you read that? This was the basis for the alteration of the home. The snake is the devil, that same old deceiver. He came to entice them to disobey God’s instructions. God had made everything beautiful and placed Adam and Eve to care for creation. The home and the relationship were perfect until this unholy interaction with the wicked one. I led the whole conversation just so we could appreciate what happened, but our main concern is the anomaly of the role that the woman played in the mess and the failure and inability of the man to assert his leadership and leadership. A wise woman would have involved the man, the husband in the discussion and the process from the beginning. Why did Eva entertain, end, and act on the discussion before involving the man, the head of the house? And since some believe that Adam was present, how could he be watching helplessly and stupidly as that old deceiver lured his wife into sin and destruction without uttering a word? Why did he even eat that fruit without any form of resistance?
There must be a hole in this whole story. Remember, the responsibility fell on Adam as head of the household. Eva was just an assistant. Adam was the head. Therefore, when God came, He addressed the man and not the woman. He called and questioned Adam as head of the house. The issue was between God and man. God holds man responsible for the success or failure of the home. This first family was abnormal. The woman received the visitor, made all the discussions, picked up the apple and finally gave it to her irresponsible and docile husband and ate it whole without asking questions. My God! Adam acted as if he was bound by something during this period. But are there men like him today? Safe! Look around you and you will see many of them. I mean men who have become wives, observers, robots, visitors, spectators, servants, attendants, rubber stamp in their own home with satanic powers. Since then they have lost their physical and spiritual position and leadership. Like Adam, they are being caged and manipulated by the daughters of Eve and Jezebel. But I pray that they will be released today from these chains of the enemy in the mighty name of Jesus! Here it is very clear that Eva was completely in charge. It is not surprising that the union also produced a terrible seed like that of Cain; the first murderer, the first murderer. By action, it is clear that this Adam was not qualified or rather did not know exactly what was expected of him as the head of the family and creation.
Today, things have gone wrong in many households because the men who are supposed to be the bosses have abdicated their roles and responsibilities. Since then, women or other interests have taken over their positions. This is abnormal. It is not God’s will. Adam was the one who was given the responsibility and when he failed, he was also asked to explain. And it’s not about who is richer, who has a better job, physically bigger, smarter, more beautiful, or educated. No! It is a spiritual order. It’s the way God designed it. What wise and godly women do is fully support their husbands, encourage and be patient with them, cover their nakedness and weaknesses, and consistently come forward and position them as the head. But the wicked will dishonor, dishonor, abuse and expose their own, especially when they are no longer up to par economically or educationally. No matter how great or successful the woman is, God still sees the man (even if he is deformed) as the head of the household. And any attempt to ridicule or forcibly relegate him can attract serious divine curses, reprimands, and trouble at home. Yes, I hear you say that some of them are very irresponsible, foolish, and careless. If that is true. But they are still the head spiritually. You just have to pray for them to regain their senses, position and also ask for the grace and wisdom to face them and make them what God wants them to be. In Eden, in the first home, God demanded an explanation and responsibility from the man and not the woman. Now, if you are a man, you must immediately get up and take your position! We will examine other areas next week.
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