If you’ve broken up with your ex boyfriend and wondering how to make him love you again, you’re not alone. Breakouts often happen in a split second. Something happens. Something is said. Tempers flare and someone runs out the door. A few days pass and soon you find yourself wishing you could turn back time and reverse the whole situation.
You may not be able to go back in time, but you CAN make your ex boyfriend love you again. Reading to the end of this article will help you do just that.
Learn to avoid the quick fix
If you want your ex boyfriend to love you back, you have to be careful with quick fixes. What happens when you feel hopeless and start looking for a quick fix? You start to beg. You start to beg. You get emotional and start to proclaim your undying love and tell your ex boyfriend that you can’t live without him.
And what does he do? He runs!
The reason for this is simple: looking for the quick fix makes you look needy and desperate. Your boyfriend will never be attracted to your clingy and emotional side. Men don’t know how to deal with emotional women, and your boyfriend will want to get away from the awkward situation.
Remember, love is never forced. It happens by itself. If you want your ex to love you back, you have to accept the break up, take a step back, and create distance…at least for a while.
Be honest: the truth must be heard
If you want your ex boyfriend to love you back, then you need to be completely open and honest with him about your relationship. Tell him the truth instead of what you think he wants to hear.
If you have made mistakes, own up to them and take responsibility. Love requires trust and he can’t trust you if you’re not honest with him.
Be less available and continue to live your life without him.
To make your boyfriend want you, make yourself less available. It may seem contradictory, but people always want what they don’t have. If your ex knows you’re sitting at home waiting for his phone call, then he’s less likely to love you than if he sees you living your life and being happy without him. When you are constantly around, he has no chance of missing you.
Get rarer and you get more valuable.