Do you want to know if your ex wants you back… why? It doesn’t mean ex in the past, it’s over, we’re done, I don’t love you anymore, or goodbye, I’m moving on. When a relationship has come to an end, you have to learn to let go, but saying that if there is a ray of hope it can work and that is what you both want to go for it. However, before you get back together, give yourself time to think about why you broke up in the first place. Was infidelity (cheating spouse/partner) the cause? It’s hard to get over something like this and for some the past will come back to haunt them and the misery will remain in the relationship. There is no guarantee that the road ahead will be perfect if your partner cheated on you while you were together. Not everyone can forgive and forget.
How to know if your ex boyfriend or ex girlfriend wants you back. If your ex is playing hard to get and doesn’t let on that she wants you back, make no mistake and make a fool of yourself trying to find out. If this person loves you, the signs will show. Whatever you do, don’t misread these signs because you’ll never get over it.
Signs that your ex wants you back
Usually, couples who break up move on and go their own way. However, if your ex sticks around showing genuine interest in you, then he still cares.
Non-verbal communication: It’s definitely a sign when your ex can’t take their eyes off you, but the thing is, is that a good sign or a bad sign? Bad sign: they stare because they think they were lucky. Good sign: they watch and realize how close they have come to losing you forever. If your every move is constantly monitored by your ex with a smile, take it as a positive instead of a negative. Maintain eye contact as it increases the chances of getting closer. If there is distance between you, say in a nightclub and they slowly move closer to you, allow them some time by your side as it may be time to apologize.
circling: The Law of Average When two people separate, they will meet at some point. But when that at some point becomes all the time, and in the places you least expect to see your ex, then it’s a sign that they’re not giving up on getting back together. Don’t accuse your ex of being a stalker just because he’s everywhere. What this means is that they want to be around and protect you, but they will admit it if you confront them. Some will suppress their feelings and no one will notice. Now that your ex has been shown to still care about his stalking antics, YOU need to step in and get them to open up. Why let the relationship suffer as a result of your stubbornness when your future happiness may depend on it?
Meeting: If your ex asks to meet for coffee and chat, give him the benefit of the doubt and agree to the meeting. They obviously want to talk, but about what? Don’t be scared that it’s something bad they have to say. What other reason could your ex have for wanting to talk, other than wanting to make up? If it is a spousal matter, then you panic. Divorce can be a nasty business with continual bitchy talk and arguments over who gets what when the house is sold. Marriage dilemmas as such won’t apply to you, of course, because you’re single, well, for the moment anyway. The status of your relationship will depend on the outcome of the meeting. If your ex offers to buy you coffee, it’s a sign that he misses being with you.
Sorry: If the separation was due to a small argument in which things were said in the heat of the moment, do not dig your heels into the ground when they come to ask for your forgiveness. It takes two to tango. Maybe you said things you regret, so if you have to admit you were wrong, own up to it. An apology is a sign that your ex wants you back. If it wasn’t for what else would come to suck holes.
other signs: If your ex boyfriend or ex girlfriend talks about you with friends and family asking about your well-being and wanting to know what you are doing with your life since they broke up, don’t see it as nosy, but rather as a sign that I can’t let you go