If you hear someone say that they are married but available, this may surprise you. After all, if you’re married, how can you be available?
Unlike those who believe in monogamy and fidelity, some people believe it’s okay to have extra relationships outside of marriage and see nothing wrong with dating or engaging in activities with the opposite sex after taking their vows. Usually both husband and wife will participate in this arrangement and both will enjoy partners outside of marriage.
Other times, one spouse may be in the dark about the activity of this affair. In this case, the dating partner will have to resort to creative ways to avoid getting caught. This could be going to a different city to meet someone or keeping the encounters very short, not even telling the new partner any real information about them. Keeping it rather casual.
Either way, if you’re interested in dating someone who’s married without your spouse knowing, you may want to keep a few things in mind.
- Never give any gifts. Giving gifts is a no-no, as this can be found out by the other spouse and can lead to being found out.
- Never get emotionally attached. Keep it light and simple. Most likely, the cheater you are dating never intends to divorce the spouse, but is just looking to have a good time.
- Don’t date in public places where you can get caught. It seems like there’s always a good chance of running into someone you know, especially if you don’t want to. Instead, take a cue from Tiger Woods and meet far, far away from home.
- Make sure you set all the rules ahead of time. If you don’t want them to call you, let it be known. And never, never put anything in writing, neither on paper nor in a text. This is a sure way to get discovered.
There are many reasons why people lie and say they are married but available. Sometimes it can be due to an abusive relationship or one that started too young. Other times, perhaps the spouse has been ill for a long time with no luck in recovery. Still, sometimes there will be no real reason why the person has decided to leave their partner. So keep these points in mind, if you are looking for someone married to date and just enjoy the moment.