For a man, there is nothing more pleasurable than a spectacular blowjob. The problem is that most men complain that women don’t really know how to do it. One of the best things you can do as a woman is initiate a blowjob without him asking you to. Here are some of the steps to do this in a way that will result in great pleasure for him.
First of all, remember that just by initiating a blowjob you will be seen as very special in the eyes of your man. Men often feel self-conscious about asking for one, realizing that not all women like to give it to them. So if you as a woman can give him one without waiting for him to ask, he will be very pleased.
Another very important thing is to show the man that you are having fun. Moaning with pleasure and doing it with enthusiasm will show that you are not only doing it for his sake, but that you are enjoying it as well. Knowing that pleasure is not all one way will allow a man to relax and enjoy it more.
When you initiate a blow job, you can start by giving him a look that tells him you want to give him one. Look into his eyes with lust. Put a smile on your face. Look at his penis with pleasure. These are all important gestures, as a man will subconsciously look for clues that you may not want to give him orally.
Also, tell yourself mentally that you are going to enjoy the experience. Visualize how much pleasure you will give your man. Imagine him moaning and typing with pleasure. He will start to turn you on and make the experience even more fun for you too!
Unlike women, it usually doesn’t take long for a man to warm up for sex, let alone oral sex. When you start things up, you can literally go straight to the target, so to speak, without feeling like you have to warm it up. In fact, the best warm-up for a man can often be for you to take his soft penis within your month and suck it hard.
When you initiate a blowjob, you can also start even when he is asleep. It would be a wonderful way for him to wake up in the morning to a beautiful woman (you) sucking him greedily. In fact, this is a great way to start a blowjob because if he’s asleep, he won’t be able to feel a little nervous about giving him head. Try it!
If you’re lying in bed and he’s awake, start by kissing him on the chest. He gently strokes his penis with your hand. She then lowers her head down his body, kissing him gently on the way. You don’t need to take too long, but it will be a good warm up for your man. Remember, he doesn’t need as much time as you do to prepare for oral sex.
If you want to initiate a blowjob but aren’t sure how clean he is (and feel it might turn him off), you might suggest that the two of you take a shower together. You could even start by sleeping with him in the shower. Kneeling in front of him in the shower will definitely turn him on.
Initiating a blowjob without being asked is undoubtedly one of the most charming ways to please your man. He will love you for it!