It is quite obvious that what is common among a woman who is well loved is that she does not make things too easy for the men in their lives. Now, I’m not saying they’re witches. The beloved lady simply shows that she is not afraid of losing a man, and therefore she usually does not lose him. Have you ever noticed that when you are not interested in a man, showing that you really don’t care much if he disappears or not, then he goes crazy for you? That’s how he works.
We all want what we can’t have.
I’m not saying you have to play hard to get, although it seems that way. You simply can’t be available when he wants and you can’t be available to him and cancel any of his calls. your plans for him Don’t wait for him to call you and only show interest in things that interest him.
You are a treasure and therefore you need to show that you are of great value. You are of great value, aren’t you? If you value yourself and show it through your actions, the men around you will see it too.
Let’s say you and your date are making plans to meet up somewhere, and he’s late. You can excuse it the first time this happens. If he’s late next time and doesn’t call to let you know, wait about fifteen minutes. If he makes you wait more than fifteen minutes without a phone call, just walk away. Don’t be there when I arrive. You have other things to do, even if you really don’t. Just make other plans.
Here is another example to follow. If he says he’ll call you the next day and only calls you a few days later, that’s fine. Don’t say anything about it. However, if he wants to meet you the day he calls you, you can’t date him! You have other plans even though you don’t really have them. Also don’t ask him why he didn’t call. He won’t do you any good.
Oh, and here’s another big one. If he wants to see you but he wants it to be at your house, in your bed at the time he pleases, FORGET IT! Don’t let this happen. He has to value you much more.
Especially at the beginning of a relationship, he should buy you dinner. Only later, as time passes and the relationship progresses, should he be allowed to come to your home or visit your home. Don’t think that if he comes you can win him over by making him something to eat. No way. In any case, I should be cooking something for you, okay, princess?
I’m not proclaiming that you should never cook him dinner, but don’t make it a habit and it shouldn’t be anything too fancy or he’ll think you’re trying too hard. You don’t have to try. Actually, let him work to be with you. He needs to sweat to have you. Let him be the one in the attacking position, and you be the defense and move only according to the moves he makes.
Use common sense.
Don’t let yourself be in the position of someone who is always there waiting, desperate without valuing you while the man puts himself in the position of a king, a hot guy who uses and abuses you. Would you like a man who is always available to you, accepting everything you do? Wouldn’t you get tired of him pretty quickly? Wouldn’t you think he’s worthless? Actually, we always like the difficult; we like what we have to fight to get. He has more value and everything we have to work for has a much sweeter victory when we achieve it.
Instead, everything we get too easily makes us wonder, “hmm, I don’t know if it’s worth it or if I really want it.” If I were a man, I would ask myself, why does this lady accept everything I do? Doesn’t she have any other options out there? Is she desperate she? What’s the problem with her that I haven’t figured out yet? Am I the only loser interested in her?
You may not be desperate, but sometimes you can act like this because you think if you play hard to get, he’ll go for someone else. Well that could be true. But, if you make yourself a little hard to get and he really wants you, he will persist. If he goes for someone else, it’s because he didn’t really want you and just wanted to play. Let him go fishing in another pond. We women have no time to waste.
I want to point out that playing hardcore or something hard to get doesn’t mean you have to be tough, rude, or dry. It means that you will not tolerate being taken for granted. How do you demonstrate this? Don’t let them know with words they won’t take you for granted; You show it with your attitudes and the things you do or don’t do. It’s pretty simple. Just think about the things you don’t like to tolerate. Don’t like it when people are late when making plans? So don’t accept it. Can’t bear to wait for a phone call? So don’t expect it. You may tell yourself that you don’t mind waiting, but I doubt that’s really true. The point is, you can’t let this become a disrespectful habit or sooner or later he’ll make plans with you tonight and show up next week.
Here is an example. If he wants to see you but prefers to do it later after he’s out with his friends, what do you do? If you don’t live in the same household, he can go out with his friends, but after that he sleeps alone! Tell him you’ll see him tomorrow. If he tries to talk you into coming over later, tell him that it will be late and that you probably have plans with Maria or some other name of a friend, even if you don’t go out. Sure, he can hang out with his friends.
as in its own right. What he can’t do is keep you on hold. You are welcome. You are priority and believe it: you deserve to be priority.
A man really loves this about a woman. He knows that if he lets things happen to you, things could get ugly. You are not the type to yell and complain like many women do. With you, if he messes up, it can be much worse because you either take action or walk away.
Who says guys like nice girls anyway?
They like women with attitude. Good girls are just there to be used and thrown away. Again, being a woman with an attitude doesn’t mean you have to be pushy or cold. You are welcome. Sweet and soft, but firm. Pretty, but also smart.