Love spells are some of the oldest recorded forms of magic. They are found in every culture, from ancient Egypt to Greece, the druids of Europe and voodoo-practicing native Africans in Benin, Obeah men in Jamaica, and Santeria throughout Cuba and South America. Love spells are often thought to be used to find that special partner, bring back an ex-lover, or secure the devotion of a man or woman. But there is another type of love spell. A more sinister side that is used to rob a man or a woman. How to know if your lover has left due to natural causes or has been influenced by a love spell? Here are seven strong indicators that your partner is under a spell.
- There is a sudden and inexplicable change of heart. If your relationship was already on the rocks, then there may be a natural explanation for its demise. Sometimes people become unhappy and move on. But if things were going well and suddenly there is a change, this is one of the key symptoms of a spell to steal a lover. This type of spell can work by breaking a person’s feelings for you, turning those feelings towards another person, or even taking control of the person’s will. In all cases, love spells of this type, perhaps best described as love curses, fixes, or juju, can sour a good relationship overnight.
- Your partner recently met someone who practices witchcraft, voodoo, or other spiritual practices. Even seemingly innocuous practices like tantric yoga can quickly overload one person’s spiritual center and focus their romantic energies on another. If a person has suddenly left you for another who you suspect of practicing one of the spiritual or magical arts, then you have reason to suspect that a love spell has been cast. It’s certainly not a test. Not all, or even most, of the people who practice some form of magick or alternative spirituality will use it in this way. But it is a symptom and a warning sign to be aware of.
- Personality changes can be symptomatic of love spells or curses. If your lover becomes aloof, indifferent or affectionate, this may indicate that a spell has been put on him. Similarly, if they suddenly become hostile or aggressive despite being kind and loving in the past, this is another symptom. Personality changes that are apparently not related to love spells can be symptoms, as many of these spells work to change the personality and free will.
- Your lover contacts an ex out of the blue, or alternatively an ex contacts him or her out of the blue. Old relationships rarely light up without some strength to do so. If a former partner has been out of the picture for a long time, but suddenly comes back in, this can be a very strong sign that some spiritual force has been used to bring them back. This should also be particularly apparent if the ex has a history of using witchcraft to manipulate people.
- You find that your parents, relatives, siblings or your partner’s family, parents or siblings suddenly reject your relationship or marriage. Many curses and love spells are designed to drive a couple away from work by putting obstacles in their relationship. The strongest and most damaging of these often take the form of family objections. If everything was fine in terms of family relationships and suddenly you find objections, it is a very strong indicator that something has changed on a spiritual level. A man or a woman may have done something to put obstacles and barriers in the way of their relationship.
- You experience seemingly unrelated misfortunes in your life: health problems, difficulties with money or your career, and even problems at school. Often, she places a curse on herself as part of a spell to attract a mate. Curses of this nature, acting in a general way, try to destroy your life in general. The side effects often carry over into non-romantic areas of your life. If your partner leaves you for another person and you begin to experience patterns of misfortune, it is very likely that a curse has taken effect and is upon you.
- Decreased romantic and even sexual desire. You may find that your privacy is less. You may catch your partner with a wandering eye more often. It is even common that when a love spell is cast to attract a person, they are found more often on inappropriate websites on the internet. The reason for this is because of the new intensity of the spell acting on them. Many love spells to drive people away are not well targeted. They have side effects that include driving your ex away from you and towards any other romantic or passionate fulfillment. If things were good in your intimate life and then take a sudden downward spiral, this is a strong symptom of a hex or love curse.
My partner is under a curse or love spell. How do I solve it?
The first step is to identify everything you can about the spell and the person who may have cast it. If you know who your partner is currently seeing, then you have a much better chance of breaking the spell than if you’re not sure. This will allow you to work against the magic they are using. Collect basic information and photos of this person if you can. They will be important in any type of counterspell. The second step is to perform the proper rituals to break a curse or a love spell. If you are not familiar with this, you should find a trained professional to do it for you. Attempting to break a love spell can often make it stronger if you are inexperienced, so only those experienced and experienced in breaking love spells should attempt this type of work.