Believe it or not, but from my experience, I would say that from the moment you start dancing with a woman, you don’t need more than three songs before you kiss her, which is something like 10-12 minutes. You need to aim to climb gently, get kissed, or extract within 3 songs.
1st song:
You have the opportunity to dance with her. Smile and be enthusiastic. Dance close to her for a while, then step back and dance a few feet away from her. Then move a little closer for a little longer, then move away again, bodies apart at all times, plus hands for turns etc. Go ahead, have fun and forget about any outcome. DON’T get too serious, SMILE, be the same fun guy she was attracted to a few minutes ago, don’t get too interested or too serious.
2nd song:
Give her time and space to get used to your body being close to hers, make her feel comfortable. In the chorus, hold eye contact and smile, then slow dance.
Look into her eyes in a loving way. Squeeze her hand and see if she squeezes back. Then go back to being the normal fun guy and stand a bit out of the way, push and pull the dance floor.
3rd song:
Dance close to her, dance slow no matter the music. Guide her with your rhythm. Have strong eye contact and breathe normally. If things are getting too hot, she decides to take the kiss test.
Look into her eyes, take a hand and stroke her hair just above her ear. If she’s holding eye contact with you, slowly move closer and give her a light kiss, then walk away.
If she turns her head, kiss her on the cheek and then move to her neck! Usually, he will turn around and kiss your lips. Do not lose eye contact, do not show disappointment if he rejects you. You can even expect some token resistance from her. It’s a good sign though. Just go ahead and smile and have fun with her, then try again. Try it 3 times, if she’s still there with you and her body is close to her, it means she just isn’t comfortable to kiss her on the dance floor, but she’s definitely still ON. Ask her if she likes to travel, when she says yes, tell her, “let’s travel”. She take her hand and lead her to a couch/seclusion spot for the kiss.