Hello. My name is Mistress Sara and I am the author of Beautiful Enslavement, a comprehensive guide to male chastity for modern couples. Over the years, I have helped dozens of couples incorporate male chastity devices and male chastity belts into their marriage. I did it because this lifestyle has proven to be the right choice for most couples, especially if they are having problems in their relationship.
My feeling is that most relationship problems develop because the male partner lacks self-control. This means that even if he wants to remain committed to you, he will waste his time and energy masturbating, sometimes up to 10 times a week. This means less privacy for his wife and his own personal embarrassment for behaving like a little boy instead of a grown man.
This creates a dynamic where the wife begins to resent her husband, and the husband begins to take her for granted and blames her for his own lack of self-control. Male chastity solves this problem. By making it impossible for him to masturbate or have an affair, intimacy and honesty return to the marriage.
Many people are curious about the male chastity lifestyle, but are put off at first because they don’t understand exactly how it works. Therefore, I would like to take some time to go over the basics of male chastity. Obviously I can’t cover everything here; but this should give you enough information to decide if you want to learn more about how this wonderful lifestyle can improve your marriage.
When you enter male chastity, you will need to buy a male chastity cage or tube for your husband. This will prevent her from being able to get an erection or reach orgasm. She will also have to sit down to urinate.
He will then be asked to earn the right for you to unlock him when you feel he deserves male liberation. During the period that he is wearing the belt, he will have to do things to please you in order to earn this right.
In other words, he will have to find ways to satisfy you sexually, without his penis. This can lead to hours of oral sex and multiple orgasms. He will also have to help out around the house more and become more romantic.
He will gladly accept all this because what men want most on this earth is the right to orgasm. Initially, you’ll probably only have him locked up for a few days at a time. Then you’ll have him locked up for a week or more.
Eventually, the ideal situation is for him to have 12 or fewer orgasms a year, which means you’ll let him out to play once every four to six weeks.
This will stop his masturbation habit, prevent him from looking at porn, and ensure that he remains faithful to you. But, he too will benefit. He will be constantly aroused and when you let him out he will have the best orgasms of his life.
You, on the other hand, will feel like a princess. Do you remember how you felt during your initial courtship? That is the man who will suddenly come back into your life.
Of course, it will require effort on your part. It’s not just about locking it up. You will have to be very affectionate with him so that he feels loved and wanted. You will have to praise him when he does a good job. And you’ll probably have to clean the family jewels for him; otherwise he would take the opportunity of freedom to masturbate.
But all this effort will pay off when you see the direct benefits to your marriage, and in time, your husband will be delighted that you’ve taken an active role in keeping it under lock and key.