From a new generation of motivators, America’s Attitude Coach
Ray Pelletier offers you a practical guide to translate
your personal mission in concrete action. To do today
your January 1st. Say goodbye to negative thoughts and
change your life giving yourself permission to win.
Talk to champions
Misperceptions of ourselves are formed early
childhood and can stay with us for the rest of our lives,
Unless we make an effort to change and make a profit
Decide to win
The first step to winning is: You need to make up your mind to win.
Your January 1 marks the day you decide to restructure
your way of thinking and escaping from every cell to which
others have confined or limited it.
What is winning?
Winning is recognizing one of the greatest truths in life:
“It doesn’t matter what happens to you, only what you do
with what happens to you! “- a winner is someone who
knows how to overcome adversity.
Objectives and missions
Your mission refers to your reason for being on earth,
your purpose in life. We all need a vision and a mission.
reflecting our unique talents and desires. Is
something that devours us and is the inner voice that
it tells us what we should do with our time.
Some of the unhappiest people are the ones who never get
goals for themselves and continue working in a job that
they hate or stay in a dead end relationship. Thesis
people delude themselves of greater personal fulfillment
and inner peace.
Attitude: the magic of mental coaching
You need to find yourself a coach. Where can you find the
best coach? Look at the mirror. If you are going to be a
long-term winner, you have to access your subconscious
mind and reprogram it with positive thoughts and
experiences that will keep you on top!
If you’ve been programmed to think you’re a loser and
It will never be much, most likely that’s what
will become. It can be reprogrammed to think that
you are a winner.
Learning makes it possible
You are responsible to yourself for getting the best education.
to prepare you for your dream. Note that many
“overnight success” cases actually took years to complete.
Remember: winners never stop learning.
Communicate: the wheel hub
The winners follow these principles of effective communication:
1. Think before you speak.
2. Stay in control of your emotions and be positive,
open-minded and respectful of the points of view of others.
3. When communicating with others: be courteous. Whose
interrupt. Be careful.
4. When you have something to say, start by listening.
5. KISS – Keep it simple, Simon! This means cool
communicators use plain, simple, concise and direct
idiom. Nobody likes a pretentious person who only uses
big words and likes to sound superior.
6. Raising your voice unnecessarily can be interpreted as
a sign of anger or frustration and should be avoided in
each instance. Stay focused on your goal.
Family and personal relationships
Winners can weather a storm and do well. Yes
your spouse has left you, it may be time to put on a
winner hat and move on. Create your new life and not
get bogged down in depression and inactivity. Remind,
We can’t adjust the wind, but we can adjust the sails.
Earning in the workplace
Always remember: you are responsible for your own
career. Your attitude is everything. Let
your work luggage out the door when you get home.
Also, leave your personal luggage outside the door.
when you arrive at your workplace. In real life, we do
the mistake of bringing home our work problems, and our
problems from home to work.
Give you away
All human beings, no matter what religion they belong to,
find happiness and fulfillment in a way of giving or
charity. It is when we help others we feel lighter,
and happier. Choose a cause that interests you and fits
your talent and unique profile. This will add a new meaning
to your life.
Yes, you CAN deal with making a living AND work in
your personal mission. Few of us are rich enough or
lucky enough to just chase our dreams without
thinking about where we will obtain our financing. Take a
Daily effort to schedule a part of your day for the
his personal dream job, and another to pay the
The water of life
This probably involves the major radios in the world.
Circle or Wheel of Life. The water of life refers to the
three essential rays of the Circle of Life:
1. The spiritual
2. Physical fitness
We must all make room for these activities.
Permission to win
1. Free yourself from self-imposed restrictions and open
your mind to the potential of a champion.
2. Don’t let the loss of a job, relationship, or relationship
sickness takes your strength away.
3. The best thing about human beings is their ability
to overcome adversity.
4. Give yourself permission to win and get started today!
5. Take five seconds to approach a mirror and say to yourself
loud and firm: “I give you permission to win.”
“Worry more about your character than about your
reputation, because characte is what you really are,
while your reputation is simply what others think
are. “-John Wooden, college basketball coach
“Although they only give gold medals in the field of
athletics, I encourage everyone to take a look at themselves
and find your own personal dream, whatever it is
be – sports, medicine, law, business, music, writing,
what. The same principles apply. Turn your dream
on a target and learn how to attack that target
systematically. Break it into bite-sized pieces that
It seems possible, and then don’t give up. Just keep
Disconnecting it. ”
– John Naber, swimmer, four-time Olympic gold medalist