You are crazy about him, but you know in your heart that he is not serious with you. If he is a player and you want him to stop playing and get serious, all you have to do is follow these tactics. They will help him see how foolish he is being and how much you mean to him.
Be consistent in your sincerity with him.
Don’t let their nonsense catch you. If you are one hundred percent sure that he is the man for you, then you must be constant in your search for him. Make him see that you are serious and sincere in your feelings for him. Don’t hold back and continue pouring your love on him. He might be embarrassed to take your fiery love for granted and stop being a womanizer.
Show him that you are worth committing to
Even if he has come into this relationship light-heartedly and is dating you just for the “fun and games” element, make him see that you are not a girl to be taken lightly. Make him realize that you’re worth committing to and that he’s not going to find another girl like you in a hurry. When he starts admiring you for the traits and qualities you have, he will get serious.
Let him see the difference between you and the other girls.
Behave in such a way that he notices the difference between you and other girls. Let him see that not only do you look and dress better than any other girl, but that your nature and characteristics are far above the other women he has dated in the past. When he realizes that you are a true “find”, he will not want to give you up.
Don’t let him get away with it all the time.
If you notice that he is a player and refuses to take you seriously, then you should stop coddling him and give in to him all the time. If you don’t let him have his way with you, he’ll realize his game is up and he can’t play with you anymore.
encourage him to be faithful
Even if he started out as a player and never made a commitment to you or said anything to you that promised future commitment, you can always encourage him to stay true to you. He tries to make you the woman of his dreams and be the kind of girl he can look up to. He could change his mind and remain faithful.
Let him know that you are not to be taken lightly.
If you know that he is a player and you want something more from the relationship, then you should let him know and not allow him to take you for granted. Let him know that you’re not up for “playing around” and that if he wants to go out with you, then he should seriously think about stopping flirting.
Become a player too to teach him a lesson
Sometimes you have to take a drastic step to teach him a lesson. Become a “player” and flirt with the other guys. Go out with other handsome guys and see how she likes it! If he finds himself hating the idea of sharing you with others, he will drop his bad habits and get serious.